握在手里的风筝也会断了线
[wò zài shŏu lĭ de fēng zhēng yĕ huì duàn le xiàn]
Literally meaning that even a kite held tightly in hands may lose its thread, it signifies that control over situations or loved ones isn't always within our grasp. This name expresses the frustration and helplessness in losing hold of something cherished.