只怪自己長不出伱愛的樣子
[zhĭ guài zì jĭ cháng bù chū nĭ ài de yàng zi]
It translates to: 'Blaming oneself only because cannot become someone you love'. Expresses regret at not being able to transform into the desired type. The person seems heartbroken, self-accusing due to unmet expectations.