万人宠不如一人懂万人追不如一人疼
[wàn rén chŏng bù rú yī rén dŏng wàn rén zhuī bù rú yī rén téng]
Being adored by many is not as precious as being truly understood by one person; Being sought after by countless individuals doesn't match up to the affection of just one person who really cares. It expresses a pursuit of deep understanding and genuine love from a specific person instead of mere attention from a crowd.