万人追不如一人疼万人疼不如一人懂
[wàn rén zhuī bù rú yī rén téng wàn rén téng bù rú yī rén dŏng]
'Being pursued by thousands is not as good as being cherished by one; being adored by many is not as precious as being truly understood by one.' This conveys a preference for deep, meaningful relationships over surface-level fame or attention.