深拥必自伤久爱必自毙
[shēn yōng bì zì shāng jiŭ ài bì zì bì]
Expressing a poignant view on deep affection and its aftermath, it translates to 'intense love must eventually hurt oneself'. This phrase embodies a rather sad realization regarding close relationships leading to unavoidable pain and damage over time. It implies an intense yet pessimistic outlook on intimacy and commitment.