握不住的沙干脆散啦它
[wò bù zhù de shā gān cuì sàn la tā]
Translates to 'The sand you cannot hold, might as well let it go'. This phrase indicates the acceptance of losing something unholdable; rather than fighting the loss, allow what was meant to drift away naturally. It speaks to the understanding that some aspects of our lives are fleeting, and letting them be can be more peaceful.