心软是毒无法自拔
[xīn ruăn shì dú wú fă zì bá]
'Xinruan shi Du wufa zhiba' could be understood as 'A soft heart is venomous; it cannot extricate oneself.' It conveys a paradox: having compassion might sometimes feel poisonous because being empathetic can also hurt oneself, leading to entrapment in painful emotional experiences.