你曾说久伴现在是久绊
[nĭ céng shuō jiŭ bàn xiàn zài shì jiŭ bàn]
'Once you said long-time companionship, now it is becoming prolonged hindrance'. Initially referring to a commitment of staying together for long, this has turned into a metaphorical expression that staying in each other's lives might have caused unnecessary constraints rather than growth or happiness.