可以不要心但脸不能丢
[kĕ yĭ bù yào xīn dàn liăn bù néng diū]
This can mean 'It's okay not to have heart, but face must not be lost'. This shows a certain level of pragmatism where appearances matter more than emotional truth, reflecting possibly on a society's pressures to keep up an image or reputation despite internal feelings or thoughts.