感情上都输给了我以为
[găn qíng shàng dōu shū jĭ le wŏ yĭ wéi]
In Relationships, Always Losing to What I Thought. It represents the regret or frustration caused by personal misjudgments or overly confident assumptions in past romances. The user feels disappointed by how things have played out compared with original anticipation, highlighting the painful reality gap between actuality and what he thought.