乍见之欢不如处久不厌深爱相思不如相爱陪伴
[zhà jiàn zhī huān bù rú chŭ jiŭ bù yàn shēn ài xiāng sī bù rú xiāng ài péi bàn]
A transient initial delight does not compare to long-lasting attachment; yearning and missing dearly aren't equal to truly loving each other's presence. This phrase describes valuing profound and enduring companionship rather than superficial first impressions.