温柔不肯
[wēn róu bù kĕn]
With the name “温柔不肯”(wen rou bu ken) it can be interpreted to mean “not willing to be gentle,” signifying a paradox, maybe implying an inner battle of emotions or simply stating that even though the person appears soft-hearted they won't back down when the situation requires toughness. It may also describe the personality that does have tender feelings inside but prefers acting tough.