疼老婆这不是懦弱而是溺爱
[téng lăo pó zhè bù shì nuò ruò ér shì nì ài]
'Being nice to your wife (loving her) is not weakness but indulgence,' indicating that being caring and kind to the beloved wife should be viewed as doting or affection rather than perceiving it as a flaw or lack of masculinity.