逝去的人让我痛哭一阵离开的人让我痛苦一生
[shì qù de rén ràng wŏ tòng kū yī zhèn lí kāi de rén ràng wŏ tòng kŭ yī shēng]
Expresses profound sorrow caused by loss. Translated, this could be understood as saying 'people who have passed on make me cry but those who left make my whole life bitter,' signifying grief that changes over time depending on nature and reason of departure of people from our lives.