女人如花花似梦男人如毒毒刺骨
[nǚ rén rú huā huā sì mèng nán rén rú dú dú cì gú]
With metaphorical and rather poignant undertones, this name draws a vivid contrast: women's beauty is likened to transient yet captivating flowers while men's negative qualities (harmful behaviors, betrayals, etc.) are compared to venomous and deeply hurting poisons.