宁愿笑着放手不愿哭着拥有
[níng yuàn xiào zhe fàng shŏu bù yuàn kū zhe yōng yŏu]
Translating to 'prefer laughing while letting go rather than crying in possession.' This shows a preference for freedom from painful emotions even if it means losing a cherished one, compared to clinging on with tears.