娘有男人拒绝勾搭爷有女人拒绝暧昧
[niáng yŏu nán rén jù jué gōu dā yé yŏu nǚ rén jù jué ài mèi]
Reflecting a sense of self-respect, the owner refuses unnecessary romantic engagements from men ('I'm a man rejecting flirtation') while remaining aloof with women ('As a woman I reject ambiguous relationships'). It conveys assertiveness in controlling one’s own boundaries.