你笑着说分手我哭着说挽
[nĭ xiào zhe shuō fēn shŏu wŏ kū zhe shuō wăn]
Translated loosely, 'You smile and say goodbye while I cry begging for you to stay.' This evocative net-name captures heartbreak and the differing reactions of two people in an ending relationship—one at ease, the other deeply upset.