男Ren不拽怎能服众女Ren不狠怎能站稳
[nán ren bù zhuài zĕn néng fú zhòng nǚ ren bù hĕn zĕn néng zhàn wĕn]
This translates to: 'If a man isn't aloof, how can he win over women? If a woman isn't tough, how can she stand firm?'. It suggests that men need to be charismatic and confident while women need to be independent and strong. It's a bit provocative as it sets different behavioral expectations for both genders.