久绊不是久伴深碍不是深爱
[jiŭ bàn bù shì jiŭ bàn shēn ài bù shì shēn ài]
Loosely translated as 'A long tangle is not the same as lasting companionship; deep hindrance is not the same as true love.' This expresses disillusionment with relationships that linger without genuine emotional depth or commitment.