毁我爱她毁我爱他
[huĭ wŏ ài tā huĭ wŏ ài tā]
Translated into English, it reads like 'ruin me while I love her ruin me while I love him'. Usually it conveys a state where falling in love causes self-suffering, either by loving unconditionally to the harm or being heartbroken due to loving more than once. In short, it indicates complex emotional entanglements involving hurt.