花凋为谁祭花开自相依
[huā diāo wéi shéi jì huā kāi zì xiāng yī]
Combines metaphors of withering flowers symbolizing loss or sacrifice, while blooming flowers represent growth or self-reliance. It could refer to dedicating one's suffering to another or finding strength in solitude after hardship. The cycle of flowering and wilting suggests personal growth following painful experiences.