何必苦恋
        
            [hé bì kŭ liàn]
        
        
            It implies questioning whether it is worth enduring painful relationships or attachments. Indicates giving up on someone whom does not love you back deeply enough as well as learning self-love and self-valuation instead, suggesting moving on after experiencing heartache, loss, betrayal, etc., believing that one deserves better than such tormenting affairs.