姑娘别善良少年别狠心
[gū niáng bié shàn liáng shăo nián bié hĕn xīn]
'姑娘别善良少年别狠心' can be translated as 'Don't be too good-hearted, girl; don't be too heartless, young man.' This sentence reflects a bittersweet relationship dynamic where one party warns the other about the consequences of kindness or ruthlessness. The name implies wisdom from past relationships, reminding oneself not to be too vulnerable nor too indifferent, maintaining balance between extremes in matters of love or interactions.