给不了太多就不要承诺太多
[jĭ bù le tài duō jiù bù yào chéng nuò tài duō]
This phrase translates into English as 'If you can't give too much, don't make too many promises'. This reflects a cautionary approach towards relationships, whether platonic or romantic. It encourages honesty about one's limits to avoid disappointment or unmet expectations. Such a nickname conveys wisdom from past experiences, warning against overcommitting oneself in any relationship.