丢人丢心不丢他失人失心不失她
[diū rén diū xīn bù diū tā shī rén shī xīn bù shī tā]
'Embarrassed and heartbroken without him; lose self and heart yet keep her image.' This expresses a bittersweet emotion about a failed relationship or friendship but implies that one cannot rid oneself of feelings for another. Despite feeling shame or emotional loss ('dropped' person), she retains his/her place within their heart.