彼岸花谢她为君心碎彼岸花开他为伊流泪
[bĭ àn huā xiè tā wéi jūn xīn suì bĭ àn huā kāi tā wéi yī liú lèi]
'When hell flower blooms, she shatters her heart for him; when hell flower fades, he sheds tears for her' is a romantic narrative about unrequited love and mutual suffering using metaphors derived from mythology involving hell flowers (also known as red spider lilies). The term implies eternal waiting, separation, sacrifice, but not without beauty and poetry.