爱情坑的不是爹是自己
[ài qíng kēng de bù shì diē shì zì jĭ]
Translated directly into English, this nickname means 'Love traps itself instead of parents', highlighting how personal decisions affect oneself rather than blaming family members, especially in terms of romantic relationships or falling in love. It conveys a strong self-reflective sense as well as maturity facing results brought by one’s own choice in love, emphasizing self-responsibility.