爱你反倒成为我碍你
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"Loving You Has Turned Me Into Your Obstacle" suggests a painful paradox where love results in unintentional harm. There may be circumstances such as miscommunication, unreciprocated love or being inappropriately intrusive. Overall, this nickname implies feeling guilty about hurting the one loved while expressing helplessness against it.