在你要甩我我先把你踢了
[zài nĭ yào shuăi wŏ wŏ xiān bă nĭ tī le]
'If you try to leave me, I'll drop you first.' A colloquial way of describing someone wanting to avoid rejection or abandonment by preemptively ending a relationship. It conveys an unwillingness to be abandoned or left behind and also shows some self-protective awareness.