一见钟情那是罪自作多情那是傀
[yī jiàn zhōng qíng nèi shì zuì zì zuò duō qíng nèi shì kuĭ]
The phrase suggests a complex viewpoint on love at first sight ('love at first sight is a sin; self-infatuation turns oneself into a puppet'). It reflects the cynicism towards sudden romantic attraction and considers being smitten instantly without knowing someone might reduce one's autonomy or make oneself feel silly.