心软是女人最大的败笔
[xīn ruăn shì nǚ rén zuì dà de bài bĭ]
'Being soft-hearted is the biggest flaw for women.' In this view, the phrase criticizes gentleness as potentially problematic trait specifically for women, indicating the cultural bias or gender stereotype towards women should toughen their hearts. However, it also reflects personal opinion or belief in resilience over kindness for achieving success in life.