心软是病回头是命
[xīn ruăn shì bìng huí tóu shì mìng]
'Soft-Heartedness is a Disease, Turning Back Saves My Life' suggests someone who feels being too kind-hearted might be a fault leading to one’s downfall, while knowing when to retreat ensures survival. This reflects a mix of vulnerability and a wise recognition of personal limits in human relationships or situations.