心软就是拿刀捅自己的心
[xīn ruăn jiù shì ná dāo tŏng zì jĭ de xīn]
Meaning 'being soft-hearted means stabbing one's own heart,' this describes someone who suffers because they easily empathize or let others into their hearts. It highlights internal conflict where kind-heartedness leads to personal hurt or emotional pain.