相见不如怀念不见不如想念
[xiāng jiàn bù rú huái niàn bù jiàn bù rú xiăng niàn]
Comparing two forms of love and attachment, one between presence versus absence. 'Meeting you might bring less satisfaction than remembering, not seeing is better than yearning for each other.' It implies a complicated sentiment towards a loved one or a relationship that brings more distress than relief when physically together or when separated.