想多难受的是自己
[xiăng duō nán shòu de shì zì jĭ]
This phrase, '想多难受的是自己' (Xiǎng duō nándòu de shì zìjǐ), translates to 'I am the one who feels the most pain'. In this sense, it expresses that no matter what others say, you are ultimately the person who experiences your deepest feelings. It shows an inner world that acknowledges pain but perhaps seeks understanding or solace.