相爱时一场你情我愿的自虐
        
            [xiāng ài shí yī chăng nĭ qíng wŏ yuàn de zì nüè]
        
        
            When Falling In Love Is Willingly Self-abuse. It describes an unhealthy relationship where both sides know it is harmful, yet continue due to deep emotions or mutual benefits despite negative impact; it may suggest that the passion of love sometimes makes people lose self control