我媳妇不用你养我老公不用你爱
[wŏ xí fù bù yòng nĭ yăng wŏ lăo gōng bù yòng nĭ ài]
My wife doesn't need your support; my husband doesn't need your love. Expresses a defensive or possessive attitude, stating clearly that one's spouse or partner should not depend on others for anything.