我不愿七分讨好三分闹
[wŏ bù yuàn qī fēn tăo hăo sān fēn nào]
Translating as 'I am unwilling to be 70% ingratiating and 30% quarrelsome.' Expressing dissatisfaction or rebellion towards relationships where they need too much effort on being pleasant (or annoying) towards other person in a relationship which they feel is unbalanced and undeserved.