我爱你而你爱她你瞎我瞎
[wŏ ài nĭ ér nĭ ài tā nĭ xiā wŏ xiā]
'I love you while you love her; we’re both blind'. Blind here may be used in a derogatory manner suggesting lack of insight or poor choice. In the face of a twisted relationship, the users feel aggrieved or self-accusing, thinking both themselves and the beloved are foolish in handling their affections incorrectly.