天生傲骨却被你拿去煮汤
[tiān shēng ào gú què bèi nĭ ná qù zhŭ tāng]
Translated freely as 'born with pride but made soft by you', expressing an originally tough-minded individual becoming more docile or compliant due to the effect (love)of someone else. This metaphor signifies how a person who is initially difficult to tame has been subdued and transformed in a tender relationship with someone special.