天生傲骨却被你拿去炖了汤
[tiān shēng ào gú què bèi nĭ ná qù dùn le tāng]
Literal translation: 'Born with prideful bones, yet turned into your soup'. Metaphorically it means someone born independently minded or stubborn being made pliant or subservient through love, which could either imply submission in adoration or losing one’s independent nature because of another.