他是暖男不过暖的不是你
[tā shì nuăn nán bù guò nuăn de bù shì nĭ]
'He is a nice guy, but he is not warm to you' implies a bittersweet commentary on unrequited feelings or admiration from afar. While the subject ('he') may be kind and caring to many, his warmth does not extend to you, the speaker.