十年九夏那么凉
[shí nián jiŭ xià nèi me liáng]
Loosely translated as 'In Nine out of Ten Summers it's still Chilly'. There's often a sentiment attached that things don't turn out warm and happy as expected in many situations; expressing a sense of loneliness or sadness, or the feeling that expectations aren't met as planned. '九夏' could be understood either as nine summers or almost every summer in Chinese context