深情不及诋毁情话不及梦话
[shēn qíng bù jí dĭ huĭ qíng huà bù jí mèng huà]
In English, the meaning could be: True feelings never compare to criticism, sweet nothings pale next to words muttered in slumber; suggesting a sentiment that deep emotions sometimes go unnoticed when compared to hurtful things people say. Also, it emphasizes the importance of sincere love and true words over flattering talk.