若近若离怎么懂若爱若弃怎么想
        
            [ruò jìn ruò lí zĕn me dŏng ruò ài ruò qì zĕn me xiăng]
        
        
            'How to understand if it's near or distant? How to think if it's love or abandonment? ' It illustrates complex, often conflicting, feelings towards another person, especially in ambivalent relationships.