不对他好怎对他冷不对他冷怎对他好
[bù duì tā hăo zĕn duì tā lĕng bù duì tā lĕng zĕn duì tā hăo]
It indicates complicated emotional states regarding another person, showing uncertainty or cyclical thinking patterns in relationships: if not treating someone kindly leads to estrangement, but being distant might eventually bring understanding or reconciliation, highlighting confusion and internal conflict in handling relationships or affections.