如果我不毁她你怎会爱我
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Conveying a negative attitude and a harmful mentality, the user feels that harming or damaging another individual would be necessary to attract the desired romantic partner, showcasing insecurity, envy, and jealousy towards others while longing for genuine connection themselves.