女人是要宠男人是要惯
[nǚ rén shì yào chŏng nán rén shì yào guàn]
'女人是要宠男人是要惯' can be translated as 'Women are to be pampered; men are to be indulged.' This expresses traditional viewpoints regarding gender roles in intimate relationships, where women should be treated tenderly and men should be habituated to care.