你不爱我我何必自作多情
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'你不爱我我何必自作多情' (If You Don’t Love Me, Why Should I Flatter Myself?) reflects a poignant sentiment that acknowledges there's no point harboring false hope. It shows a realistic perspective when it comes to love; if one person isn't loved by the other, then there's no reason for self-delusion. This indicates emotional maturity.